Transitioning Your Toddler From the Crib to the Bed

Mandy Treeby
Chief Baby Sleep Consultant

Understanding the Transition

Is your toddler ready to graduate from a crib to a bed? This milestone can be exciting for your “big kid,” who may enjoy their new status and freedom. However, it may also mean more work for you: choosing the right type of bed, getting them to stay in bed all night, creating a safe sleep environment, and taking steps to ease the transition. Read on to learn when and how to transition your toddler from crib to bed.

When to Transition Your Toddler From a Crib to a Bed

Consider your child's height and abilities when deciding when to transition to a toddler bed. When your child reaches about three feet tall or starts climbing out of the crib even with the mattress at the lowest setting, it’s time to move to a bed. This typically happens around the age of 2 or 3.

How to Make Transitioning Your Toddler From a Crib to a Bed Easier

For some toddlers, the transition from crib to bed may go smoothly, giving them a sense of being a “big kid.” Others may need more help. Here are some tips to make the switch easier:

  • Keep the Same Bedtime Routine: Maintain the bedtime routine established in infancy to make the change feel less extreme.

  • Place the Mattress on the Floor: Start with a small mattress on the floor to prevent falls. Once your child is better at staying on the bed, you can introduce a bed frame.

  • Use a Guard Rail: This can help your child feel secure in their new bed.

What Type of Bed to Use

There are various options for transitioning your toddler from a crib to a bed:

  • Crib Mattress on the Floor: Use the crib mattress on the floor until you decide on a more permanent solution.

  • Convertible Crib: If the crib is convertible, remove the sides and convert it into a toddler bed following the manufacturer’s instructions.

  • Toddler Bed: Purchase a bed specifically designed for toddlers that can be adjusted in length and width.

  • Twin Bed: Transition to a twin bed, starting with the mattress on the floor and later moving it to a bed frame.

Reinforcing the "Stay in Your Bed" Rule

Graduating to a bed might be exciting for your toddler, but it can also be nerve-racking for you if they climb out at night. Here are some tips to keep your toddler in bed:

  • Set Clear Rules: Explain that they need to stay in bed unless they have finished sleeping, need to use the bathroom, or need you for an emergency.

  • Discourage Joining You in Bed: Encourage them to stay in their own bed rather than joining you or staying up late.

  • Comfort Items: Include a favorite stuffed animal or toy in the bedtime routine to provide comfort and help them fall back asleep if they wake up.

  • Use a Night-Light: This can prevent them from waking up scared in a dark room.

How to Help Your Toddler Get Back to Bed

If your toddler climbs out of bed, follow these steps:

  • Lead Them Back to Bed: Calmly take their hand and lead them back to bed, reminding them to stay in bed.

  • Avoid Prolonged Interaction: Do not sing, tell stories, or lie with them until they fall asleep, as this rewards them with attention.

  • Provide Reassurance: Assure them you will check on them periodically during the night.

  • Be Consistent: Remind them of the rule to stay in bed and wish them good night.

If they stay in bed all night, praise them in the morning. Consistency and sensitivity can help enforce the rules and end nighttime escapes.

Note on Childproofing and Safety

Childproofing your toddler’s room is essential before transitioning from a crib to a bed:

  • Install a Baby Gate: Place a gate on the bedroom door to prevent them from leaving the room at night.

  • Secure the Stairs: If the bedroom is on the second floor, install a gate at the top of the stairs.

  • Clear the Area: Keep the area around the bed clear of furniture or large toys they could climb on or bump into.

  • Use Wall Anchors: Secure large furniture to the wall and use childproof latches on cabinets and drawers.

FAQS AT A GLANCE

Start by placing the mattress on the floor or using a guard rail on the bed to provide a sense of security similar to the crib.

Conclusion

Transitioning your toddler from a crib to a bed is a significant milestone. Your child may enjoy the newfound freedom but may also face challenges like climbing out of bed at night. Before starting the transition, decide on the type of bed, childproof the room, and set rules to help your toddler understand the importance of staying in bed. Consistent praise and reassurance can make this transition smoother for both of you.

How We Wrote This Article The information in this article is based on expert advice from trusted medical and government sources, such as the American Academy of Pediatrics and the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists. Always consult medical professionals for diagnosis and treatment.

About Mandy Treeby

Mom of two, co-founder of the Smart Sleep Coach and a Pediatric Sleep Consultant. In working with parents & babies around the world she wants to make quality baby sleep coaching available to all.