Toddler Learning and Playtime

brought to you by Jeanne W. Lepper M.A

Play is perhaps the most important activity for young children. It's their ""work,"" their principal occupation, and how they learn!

How do children learn?

Children Learn from Each Other

When children play with siblings and friends, they learn from each other. As questions, challenges, and conflicts arise, they figure out how to solve problems.

When your child plays in a group made up of different ages, he has the opportunity to learn in two different ways:

1. By modeling the behavior of the older children,

2. By ""teaching"" the younger or less advanced children.

Children Learn by Doing

Learning is an active process. The more hands-on experiences your child has, the more curious and capable he'll become.

• Cooking and Household chores:  Children are fascinated by the work grown-ups do, go on your child his own small bowl of pancake batter to mix and buy a child-sized broom so he can help sweep the floor!

• Outdoor play—running and climbing—is essential for healthy physical development, and it's a chance for him to investigate nature.

• Open-ended learning opportunities allow your child to express his ideas such as:



  • Paper, pencils, crayons, scissors, glue, and tape for drawing, writing, and constructing



  • Cardboard boxes and other commonly found objects



  • Easel paints and watercolors

  • Water, sand, playdough, and clay for sensory experiences

  • Building blocks

  • Dress-up clothes, hats, and props

Children Learn From the Adults in Their Lives

Your lifelong offering of unconditional love and support for your baby is essential for your baby to thrive and develop.

Your relationship provides the sense of security and positive self-esteem your child needs in order to achieve and to learn. With emotional support in place, you can help your child get the most out of play (and therefore learning) by following these suggestions:

Help Your Child Be a Good Observer

Children learn from actively studying the world around them.

Take a walk with your 3-year-old and come upon a construction site, share her interest in the activity by stopping to watch and exclaiming, ""Wow! Look how big the wheels on that dump truck are.""

Model Positive Behaviors

One of the most powerful ways your child learns is by following your example.  This process happens naturally and almost unconsciously.

For example, when your child sees you reading regularly, she will want to read and be read to. And reading is one of the most important things you can do with your child!

Use Positive Language

Everyone responds better to positive words than to negative ones. Instead of issuing a command or a prohibition (""Don't throw the ball over there!"") offer a suggestion of what your child can do (""That's a good place to throw the ball"").

Play is the work of childhood. It's how your child learns about the world and how to get along in it. When you support your child in this challenging job, then your child's work really will be child's play.